As we go through life, with many things that has filled every single minutes and moments… We are always accompanied by all the good and bad things that has ever happened to us. They lived in us, in our memories, and always overshadowing us as we go along life.
Moving on would be an understatement — Though it might be the simplest way to describe anything we have survived in the past. However, did we really survived them? The thing is, if we simply forgot the unfortunate events and not forgiving them, that might be a burden to our mind, and scar us in a way that it can mature into bitterness.
"Bitterness is unforgiveness fermented"
Now, what are the major events that can greatly impact someone’s life?- Marital matter (getting married, separation, reconciliation, divorce, change in number of arguments with spouse, trouble with in laws)
- Family conditions (gain new family member, son/daughter leaving home, change in residence and/or living condition)
- Work related problem (dismissal from work, retirement, change in responsibilities at work, change in work hours or conditions, trouble with boss)
- Death of loved ones — parent, spouse, child, sibling, close family member, close friend
- Change in financial state, like business readjustment, mortgage or loan, foreclosure of mortgage
- Revisions of personal habits, changes in sleeping and eating habits, as well as recreational, social, and/or religious activities